This one is tough, because I don’t really look for any specific traits in a friend. My friends are all different and there are different things about them that I like and am drawn to. I guess ten things would be:
One: They are themselves completely. I’m not a big fan, correction… not a fan at all, of people who try to be something they’re not. I can’t really get to know them that way.
Two: They can do basically nothing with me and still have fun. (sit and tumblr together, sit on the street and just talk, play uno in my drive way at 2am, go to walmart every other day at the oddest of times)
Three: They actually want to hang out. It’s hard to be someones friend if they don’t make an effort to hang out with you.
Four: They accept for the fucking weirdo that I am.
Five: They aren’t a ditz. Plain and simple, I hate ditzy people.
Six: They aren’t a big whore. I can accept a somewhat of a whore, but big whores are no no’s.
Seven: They can get down to some katy perry and not be ashamed of it. If you can’t belt out firework, california gurls, or hot n cold, with me then we have a little problem.
Eight: They aren’t in high school. Sorry, its hard to get a long with people who have the mind set of a high school student, there sometimes are exceptions though.
Nine: Now this one is hard to say because I don’t want to offend anyone, but it is something I look for in a friend, so… They can’t be attached at the hip to their significant other. If they are with them constantly its hard to not only get them to hang out, but it can be hard because when they spend so much time with that person, that person is almost all they can talk about. Also, I don’t really want to be put in the position of the third wheel.
Ten: Last but not least, I look for an awesome personality. I love someone who has a sparkly, glowing, radiant, awesome as a double rainbow, personality. :)
There are some more I can list, but these are just the basics.